Well my names is Sharlene Davidson. I used to be an alcoholic and my husband was well a pretty big pot head. We both needed to quit. when we were about 38 and our kids were getting into high school we realized we needed to stop living two lives and quit. We joined NA and one at a time went into a rehab center. It was tough and a lot of hard work but by god I'm so glad we did it. Our kids have never done drugs and never knew about our secret problems. 16 years sober and never drinkin again.