My wife is very addicted to Facebook, the thing is I love her. but the hours of Facebooking and now meeting up with old friends has really come between us.She seems not to care about how I feel and every time we talk about it it seems to be meant with an altumatem I do this or else I do that I've asked her to go to counseling but I don't think she would do it for me or the children. It seems that finally after 13 years I can say she is selfish and really I guess I just don't like her! To me my family always has and will come first and I have strong feelings about that  also understand the want in finding out how old friends are doing but hours upon hours of filtering through peoples frind list is a little juvenile and seems to be reverting my wife to a teenage busybody. Any suggestions?