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Re: Deadly Diets
11/12/2007 9:49:07 AM return2tiffanys
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This is sad, but very true. If you go to Addictedtube.com and type in "Dove Body Image" it shows you how much a picture can be altered to make it best for advertising. So many young girls look up to famous people and want to be just like them. Not only is it encouraging eating disorders, but if the young girls follow in the same footsteps, they are missing out on vital proteins to help them mature and grow to their adult body. I too look at magazines and wish I had a better body. I always think to myself what if I don’t eat breakfast or cut out lunch a couple days a week could I too look like that? It’s sad that studies show that 70% of 6th grade girls said they first became worried about their weight between the ages of 9-11! The same study showed that 30-55% starting dieting in middle school! The average age of a middle school student is 13. That is way too young for children to be that concerned with their weight. There is a huge difference between dieting and eating healthy. Children aren’t eating healthy at home so they are relying on a diet to lose weight.

Constant Dreams
11/12/2007 10:06:00 AM return2tiffanys
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I really need help and/or advice about what to do. My ex boyfriend died in the war and I kind of regret how things happened between us. We were kind of high school sweethearts and we shared many memorable events together. I liked him since the seventh grade and we were always on and off in school, but we really did care about each other. Well we went to prom together and had a great time, probably the best time I have ever had in my life, but he started dating someone else before graduation so we never really spoke again. I never got to say good-bye and I’m still living in disbelief. I catch myself thinking that he is going to return home one day and we are going to leave off where we ended. I know it’s not going to happen, but I can’t get him out of my head. I dream about him like once a week for the last couple years. It’s kind of weird because now I have a boyfriend and in my dreams I’m dating my ex so I kind of feel like I’m cheating on my boyfriend (as weird as that may sound). I just had another dream about him last night and of course like always we were together and kissing and acting the same way we did when we were together. The only thing I am happy about is when he first died I had dreams about his death so at least now it’s not so graphic. I just can’t shake these dreams and it leaves me thinking about him the rest of the day and it just makes me so sad and breaks my heart all over again. I went to counseling and I just don’t think it helped. I mean there is nothing anyone can really do. He’s gone and I have to face the facts, but I can’t. I love him and sometimes I wish I would die so I could be with him again, I know that sounds awful. I just really can’t handle the pain. Has anyone else experienced something like this after a loved one died and how did you handle it?
Desperate Housewives
11/12/2007 10:17:00 AM return2tiffanys
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Did anyone see the episode on 11/11? It shows Mike’s addiction to his medication. Bre found Mike taking the medicine and he lied to her about it, but he accidently dropped one on the floor so of course Bre investigated it. She told Susan what she had found and so Susan searched the house for the stash of it and confronted Mike, but he lied to her. He said he wasn’t addicted and even put the pills in the garbage disposal. In the middle of the night he went under the sink and loosened the pipe to get the pills. I’m not sure how realistic this is because it’s a show, but it makes me think that an addiction can make people lie and do whatever it takes to get or take the drug. I would love some input.

Re: Did you get that falling dream ?
11/12/2007 1:07:20 PM return2tiffanys
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All the sites I looked at says that falling is a symbol for feeling out of control. Maybe it has to do with your job, family or even personal relationships. It's the idea that we don't know where we will land when we are falling. Examine your life and see if this helps at all. Think of times when you feel the most powerless.\
Re: Did you get that falling dream ?
11/14/2007 2:47:52 PM return2tiffanys
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That's why I said to look deeply and maybe you can see a part of your life that you didn't feel control of. I don't know how it could relate to him, I was just stating what I found. I don't know if it's right, but many sites said the same thing so I was just trying to help.
drinking and driving don't mix
6/26/2008 8:23:07 AM return2tiffanys
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People know not to drink and drive, but they do it anyways. Robert Pas who is 41 years old (he should know better) was charged Monday with aggravated driving under the influence, killing an innocent person. This would be formally known as reckless homicide. His bail was set Tuesday for 1 million dollars! He was driving on the Stevenson Expressway with his blood-alcohol level more than 4x the legal limit!! This is so ridiculous! Why are people so selfish and not think of other people that will be on the road? It isn’t hard to call a taxi to get you or call someone you know to pick you up. Now an innocent man is dead.

RE: Women Coffee Drinkers
6/26/2008 8:28:51 AM return2tiffanys
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I have never heard this before.. Maybe I should drink more coffee :). When I was younger my mom always said it would make me stop growing!! Is that true or a myth..probably a myth.
RE: New Kid on the Block
6/26/2008 8:33:28 AM return2tiffanys
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Congrats on making that huge step forward. Realizing you have a problem and are seeking help is such a big step and I bet your family is proud of you. Keep up the good work! :)
RE: 21 on 21st
6/26/2008 8:36:30 AM return2tiffanys
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21 drinks is so much! I don't drink now, but when I did I couldn't handle more than 4. On my 21st birthday I took it slow and just hung out with friends and family. I'm not in to the party scene, but even though I didn't drink, I still had a good time!!
RE: Searching Students
7/14/2008 9:53:54 AM return2tiffanys
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I heard this new thing was for the UK. I believe teachers in the U.S. already can do this just like you said by having drug dogs and if suspicious sending them to get help at school. There are already schools in my hometown that have metal detectors to search for guns, knives, etc. It's amazing how much has changed in the school system since even 20 years ago.
RE: Prevent Binge Eating
7/14/2008 11:12:46 AM return2tiffanys
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I have noticed that when I'm with other people I tend to eat more. Maybe because you just get carried away and enjoy yourself more? I'm not totally sure, but I know when I go out to a restaurant and it is family style, since there are so many options I tend to eat a little bit of everything, which is still way too much food and afterwards I feel sick because I'm so full. But, when I'm alone, I either don't eat or munch on something small.
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