RE: escaped fugitive
5/9/2008 12:49:06 PM
punjaboy
26 Posts
Mrs.Ugly said: I think there should be a law that like if you wanted and haven't been found for 7 years but have completely changed into a much better person with proof of it, then you should be off the hook with just probation. It'll be helping out a lot of people. Like all those people who commited their crimes at a young young age, they could make a 180* turn in just a few years. I dont think they deserve to spend most of their lives in prison for something they did as a kid.
Thats a good idea. But I dont think they should be let off the hook that easy, they should have to do community service, maybe talk high schoolers and tell them their story and how doing drugs at such a young age can mess you up in ways you can never ever imagine. But if the person was in jail for murder and escaped I do
not agree and they should be put back in the cage forever.
RE: Emotional Life of the Newly Sober
5/9/2008 12:52:10 PM
punjaboy
26 Posts
bcoolio said: Early in rehab, the alcoholic/addict may be plagued by a variety of uncomfortable and challenging feelings that can overwhelm their ability to cope. Post-addiction for me was marked by significant swings in experienced emotions. Early in my recovery, as my mind was reawakening, I was sober, but I found myself experiencing extreme anxiety with a sense of tremendous fear. Sometimes I thought about the things in my past, sometimes of my consequences, and my uncertain future.
My best friend, whose gone through her recovery with me, had a re-emergence of painful memories of trauma in her childhood which spilt out in the form of deep and pertaining sadness, hostile and aggressive feelings of anger and shame.
We were both extremely prone to relapse, but in recovery, not all emotions of sobriety are negative. The first days of sobriety were like pink clouds with feelings of euphoria because we were so happy about our sobriety. Even after years of chemical numbing, the alcoholic/addict can develop the capacity to feel.
Does your friend still think about her painful memories? Or after being sober for a while is she over it and a happy sober person again?
RE: Re: Even teens can consider underage drinking bad
5/9/2008 1:54:26 PM
punjaboy
26 Posts
surfville said: I'm happy taht you have seen the truth about teenage drinking, and being drunk generally because I think the difference in teenage and adult drinking is mainly because most adults who aren't really addicted to alcohol know when to stop and say no whereas teenagers who are also not addicted to alcohol would have harder time saying no. But when both get drunk, teenager and adult alike, its basically the same: becoming a less inhibited person and getting more daredevil. Both should take drinking to moderation if none at all, old and young alike.
I dont think whether its an adult or a teenager drinking and knowing when to stop makes much of a difference. They're going to be the same, if the teenager is into drinking and mature enough then they will stop, and same with adults. But I think adult partiers and teenage partiers are the same, the same amount pass out, the same amount get hung over the next day. But I do think some decisions teenagers make are worse, but thats aso because of the situations they're in. When they drink they're at a crazy party with lots of friends and dancing and drugs, but for an adult its more of a casual thing and they dont have the oppurtunity to make as many mistakes.
RE: Xanax Addiction
5/9/2008 2:01:09 PM
punjaboy
26 Posts
hellotracy said: Wasn't nicole richie addicted to this?
Yes she was..
Goddess I think you are developing an addiction to lortab.. I read on these forrums about a guy who was just getting off lortab and is suffering from withdrawals. I wouldn't take them for ur addiction I would only take them if needed.
Tessa: I think if you take Xanax only in the amounts perscribed then you should be fine. Make sure someone in your household regulates this for you also and makes sure you dont take more than your supposed to. If you feel like you are developing an addiction then I would talk to your doctor and have him find you an alternative and a way to safely get off the drug.