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Re: How much TV watching is "too much"?
2/6/2008 7:22:39 PM megan22
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I don't think watching 4 hours of television is bad as long as your priorities are not out of whack. As long as you are taking care of things and not neglecting anyone or anything important, then watch away.
Re: Yahoo Messenger addiction...myth or fact
2/6/2008 7:29:44 PM megan22
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Fardreamer wrote
I have heard of Internect Addiction, of course, and maybe I might have commented on the topic in other threads, but I have been thinking about my use of Yahoo Messenger and wonder if I may be addicted to it.

Normally, I have it on most of the time when I'm online, and I try to not turn it off unless I am working on a time-sensitive project, but I really feel weird when I do turn it off even if it's for work....

So, am I addicted?


Nah, it doesn't sound like you are addicted to me. I am the same way. If I have to be online whether working or whatever else, I like to have my messenger on. I have never solely gotten online just to chat on messenger. See if any of these apply to you and this may give you a good idea if you are addicted to a messenger:

Do you use more than one screenname? How many messengers do you run? Do you have over 70 people
on your buddy list? Do you know all the shorcuts for all the smileys
by heart? Have you ever spent more than five minutes coming up with an
away message?

If you can answer yes to all of these you may have a little addiction going on there, but that doesn't mean it will affect you negatively.
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Re: Nobody wants to date someone who stinks of nicotine
2/6/2008 7:42:14 PM megan22
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princess2008 wrote
Leighdu wrote




princess2008 wrote
Yep it is extremely hard to quit and I dont think non smokers realise just how hard it is. I am trying to cut down at the moment and I have been doing really well as in the last year I have been smoking a lot more than I used too. The last few days Ive literally cut my smoking in half. One thing I will say though is that a lot of smokers especially myself and friends are so aware of the smell etc that like me they carry plenty of mints and my bestfriend always cleans her teeth and sprays her clothes after a cigarette! It's just being able to quit it all together.



I've been a good streak and haven't smoked in a while, and even though it is tough, I'm hoping it is not impossible. One thing I have learned is that the majority of the cravings after 72 hours are gonna be in your mind. It can be done though. There are times when all I do is sit and think about puffing away. But the feeling does pass and I am glad I do not give in. Hang in there. Cutting down even half a pack is much better than not cutting down at all.

As far as the smell, I never smoked in my house, in my car, or in any confined spaces. I would always go outside where there is wide open space and then give myself plenty of time to air out, then use mints, wash my hands, etc. religiously to get rid of any smoke smell.



Thats great to hear that you have remained from smoking, and I have been told that the cravings after the first 72 hours get a lot easier to deal with, I am always so curious to know how people are quitting and the motive for it, have you used anything to help you quit other than willpower?

A lot of my friends have had their senses come back especially being able to taste things better.


Aside from health risks, the biggest motivation factor for a few of my friends were the increasing prices of packs of cigarettes. At about $5 a day in our area, and a pack smoked a day, they were just throwing $35 a week down the drain. It may not seem like a lot but those prices sure do add up.
Have your hands turned yellow?
2/6/2008 7:43:00 PM megan22
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I have noticed some smokers have yellow fingers and others don't. Could this be that some people smoke filterless cigarettes? Or maybe some people smoke differently or more often than others?
Re: When do you have your first Cigarette ?
2/6/2008 7:46:19 PM megan22
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Leighdu wrote
megan22 wrote
I was able to kick the smoking habit, but back when I was a smoker, I had a cigarette the first thing in the morning when I woke up before anything else. It was usually the first thing on my mind every morning.


It was always in the mornings for me: Coffee and cigarettes . I didn't always drink coffee but usually within 30 minutes I lit up.


This is what always did it for me as well. Franch Vanilla Cappuccino with a few smokes in the morning. Ah, those were the days but I am very thankful that I have quit.
Re: Rice addiction?
2/12/2008 9:20:31 AM megan22
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surfville wrote
No we are from the philippines rice is really the main food here and all the dishes are made or cooked and should be eatebn with rice like what i do know!. I think it is healty because it has fibers.


It is just like in Italy where pasta is the main food. It is culture, not addiction. Althought it may seem that way if you feel lost when you don't have it.
Re: Writers' Strike is a cure for TV addiction!
2/12/2008 9:24:39 AM megan22
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Television it seems has taken over. It babysits kids, it babysits men, and has become a boyfriend to women (think LIFETIME). I don't think watching television is a bad thing, but I think too many people rely on it to fill voids in their lives, and that will in turn turn into addiction.
Re: Xbox Live
2/12/2008 9:26:30 AM megan22
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This really is a bad thing, and the worst thing is that most of the players are not getting paid. I know there are gamers out there that get paid to play, but the majority just play for the sake of playing, and take it to extremes.
Re: Chewing tobacco, you're thoughts?
2/12/2008 9:28:26 AM megan22
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Quenlin wrote
My uncle chews tobacco and he thinks that it's safer because it doesn't go into the lungs, I don't know for sure but I seriously doubt it. Don't know why you would chew it, because you can't exactly swallow it without getting a really upset stomach.

Can anyone set the record straight? I don't want him to wind up getting mouth cancer.


True, it does not go into your lungs, but it is absorbed straight into your gums and gum cancer is just as bad lung cancer. Plus chewing tobacco is just as addictive as smoking.
Re: Switching to lighter brands didn't help me
2/12/2008 9:30:21 AM megan22
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at4101 wrote
I have always been a smoker of light cigarettes, but at one point I switched over to Ultra lights thinking that eventually the lesser amount of nicotine would help me quit. It didn't, and in fact I was just smoking more to catch up on the nicotine that my body was used to getting. Has this happened to anyone else ? I even tried to switch to Menthol too thinking I would hate it and that didn't help either.


Yes, it is just a clever way of making you think that you are taking the healthier alternative to smoking, when in fact the only healthy alternative would be to quit.
Whats the hardest part ?
2/12/2008 9:33:00 AM megan22
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Is it the craving for nicotine for you, the fact that you don't have a smoke in your hand, or just the fact that you have done it so long that you would feel odd not smoking anymore?
Re: You could be your kids number 1 supplier
2/14/2008 9:46:10 PM megan22
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Aries wrote
I saw that on a billboard once, and I have to say that it's true. It's a genuine problem, and with parents thinking "My kid wouldn't do that." all the time, it can go unnoticed.


There was someone I used to work with a few years back who would steal his mom's Xanax and sell it per pill. It was unbelievable how so many people were buying it up too.
Re: Gay Christian
2/14/2008 9:50:58 PM megan22
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Since when did anyone hear on Earth become God ? It is not up to anyone to judge you, and in fact the people that do that are contradicting the very religion that they believe in. Besides, the Bible is the only thing that has never changed with the times in thousands upon thousands of years. We all know slavery is wronf, but it was mentioned quite a few times as being ok in the Bible. Gay or not, it is between you and God, and God loves ALL of his children unconditionally.

Just keep your faith and God will help you through your addiction.
Re: Internet shopping
2/14/2008 9:54:51 PM megan22
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I was an addict for quite sometime on Ebay. I first started out there looking for some rare to find cds that I could not find anywhere else. Then it got to the point where I was bidding on anything and everything just to get that rush of winning something at a cheaper than retail price. But even though I was winning all kinds of bargains, I was putting myself in the poor house because I was winning and paying for several things daily. In order to stop I had to cancel my Paypal and Ebay account and never go back. There are times when I really want to be there still, but it has gotten much better over time.
Re: Yahoo Messenger addiction...myth or fact
2/14/2008 9:56:50 PM megan22
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Fardreamer wrote
megan22 wrote
Fardreamer wrote
I have heard of Internect Addiction, of course, and maybe I might have commented on the topic in other threads, but I have been thinking about my use of Yahoo Messenger and wonder if I may be addicted to it.

Normally, I have it on most of the time when I'm online, and I try to not turn it off unless I am working on a time-sensitive project, but I really feel weird when I do turn it off even if it's for work....

So, am I addicted?


Nah, it doesn't sound like you are addicted to me. I am the same way. If I have to be online whether working or whatever else, I like to have my messenger on. I have never solely gotten online just to chat on messenger. See if any of these apply to you and this may give you a good idea if you are addicted to a messenger:

Do you use more than one screenname? How many messengers do you run? Do you have over 70 people
on your buddy list? Do you know all the shorcuts for all the smileys
by heart? Have you ever spent more than five minutes coming up with an
away message?

If you can answer yes to all of these you may have a little addiction going on there, but that doesn't mean it will affect you negatively.
"


With the sole exception of pet-sitting, my main source of income is online writing, so I have to use my PC as not only a source of information, entertainment, and socializing, but also as a tool for work...capital, if you will.

Right now, though, I only have one screen name that I use regularly, and I only use Yahoo! Messenger as my primary IM thingy. I have MSN's Live Messenger as a backup, but only as that.

And about the shortcuts for emoticons, no, I don't know them all by heart. Nor do I write Instant Messages that overuse IMese, ie. LOL, LMAO. I use those terms, but not to excess.


I dont see anything wrong with having your messenger on while working unless it distracts you to a point where your work is suffering.
Celeb Rehab
2/16/2008 6:28:00 PM megan22
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I have been watching this and find it really interesting. Does anyone else watch and what do you think ?
Re: Britney Spears and her Never Ending Troubles
2/16/2008 6:32:37 PM megan22
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ChickyDee wrote
Well, straight from the source of psychiatrists at UCLA where she's at right now, she's been diagnosed with Schizophrenia and Bipolar. Before they administered, she was seeing people inside her mansion and tried demanding why they were there. She said everyone was lying to her and then turned on her mom, accusing her of ruining all of her relationships and even sleeping with her current paparazzi boyfriend when she found out that they rode together to the hospital. There's also muuch speculation that she's been using meth because right before she was involuntarily committed, she was bragging about staying up for the last four days. Meth use could explain a lot, why she's having split personalities, seeing things that aren't there, pushing everyone away in her life, thinking everyone is lying to her, staying up for 4 days in fear that they'll take her away, it's all very strange but I'm glad she's in a safe environment, but she still refuses to take any medications.


My problem with this is where does the information come from? I don't too much trust the tabloids and media. Until I hear it straight from the horses mouth, or from a doctor via an interview, then I don't know how much of that I trust. However, that would totally makes sense if she had bipolar and schizophrenia, considering all her recents behavior that was caught in action an no denying.
Re: Writers' Strike is a cure for TV addiction!
2/16/2008 6:35:50 PM megan22
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GCotie wrote
I'm SOOOO MAD about this writers strike! its been going on for too long! I want my new episodes!!! I'm not a TV addict but I like these shows and it makes me angry that theyre not coming on! its my thursday and sunday night entertainment now that its all reruns I have NOTHING else to do! I sit and eat instead! I'm about ready to throw a strike against the strike!!!!


Hang in there. I am not sure how true it is but rumor has it that the strike may be over soon.
Re: No More Reality TV
2/16/2008 6:38:22 PM megan22
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YahooBoo101 wrote
Yeah that Celebrity Rehab show is actually pretty entertaining, it's so interesting. But I can't even watch The real world anymore, they're all exactly the same and Road Rules is equally as retarded. I don't even have cable because my mom doesn't want me to watch all of those shows.


Oh, I hear ya on this one. Once upon a time Real World was pretty good, but they have ran it completely into the ground and just keep rehaahing the same crap over and over. And the rest of the Mtv reality shows? I'd rather never watch t.v. again than to watch that crap.
Re: Recovering Christians
2/17/2008 5:04:46 PM megan22
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Quenlin wrote
How about we just skip the political correctness and just post as a recovering Jew/Islamic/Buddhist/whatever? I seriously doubt anyone would even raise an eyebrow to it.

And FYI, February is black history month, not march.

And in terms of my own faith, I'm a strict atheist.


I was going to suggest something similar. Leave the Christian board there. As well all can see, it has many threads and seems to stay busy for the most part. However, why not add some more as Quenlin suggested, such as "Spiritual: Recovery, non demoninational" or " Mormons in Recovery" etc.
Obsessive/ Compulsive Disorder
2/17/2008 5:07:00 PM megan22
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Has anyone, or does anyone know someone, that has this problem? Does anyone have any personal experience with it? I think my friend my have OCD as she exhibits many traits that I have read about. But can anyone tell me any personal experience or any beginning signs to look for ?
Re: Ozzy Ozborne
2/17/2008 5:08:23 PM megan22
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Speaking of Ozzy, you really have to give kudos to his son Jack. He completely changed his life, overcame his addictions, and lost over 50 pounds..woohoo!
Re: Here's a good site about interpreting dreams
2/17/2008 5:09:39 PM megan22
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Quenlin wrote
http://www.dreammoods.com/dreamdictionary/

It has pretty much most of what I already know, but you yourselves can put it to use without waiting for someone who knows dreams inside and out to interpret them. It's worth a bookmark.


I used to use this site all the time, and now it's a backup to another site I found that I like: www.experiencefestival.com
What could this dream mean ?
2/17/2008 5:12:00 PM megan22
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I had a recurring dream for the longest time that I was back in high school, and right before graduation, I failed, couldn't graduate and didn't finish school. I have no idea why I kept having those dreams, but they went on for about a year. Now they are back again and I am back in school but I am too old to be there and I am still not finishing. I know, I know..strange dream, but can anyone decipher it ?
Re: Gay Christian
2/17/2008 5:14:23 PM megan22
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BusyBody wrote
Remember the story in the Bible when a mob of Christians dragged a prositute up to Jesus and wanted to condemn her by stoning her to death for her sins. And Jesus replied, let only those stone her who are free of sin.... absolutely no one has the right to judge or curse others because we're all sinners, we all blow it everyday but as long as we repent, that's what matters the most.


You are correct. Everyone is a sinner and no one has the right to judge others when they are in the same boat. However, being gay is not a sin. It's just what millions of people are. They didn't ask for, they didn't choose it, but that is just reality.
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