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RE: Factory at home
5/16/2008 12:48:32 PM liljay
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If they actually paid for their electricity bill imagine how much that would cost cuz of the HID lights that are on ALLLL day. Also wouldnt the niehgbors see that there's lights on at night? So how can it look abandoned.
RE: SDSU
5/16/2008 12:49:46 PM liljay
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Thats really ignorant of him to ask that! theres an obvious answer. If he cared about his future he wouldn't have gotten involved in this in the first place.
crazy teachers aide
5/16/2008 12:53:18 PM liljay
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A sometimes stripper who resigned from her job as a teacher’s aide after police found her with crack cocaine, beer, and partying with teenagers was ordered to stand trial on 40 drug, sex-related and other charges. She is 35 years old, also accused of having sex with a 17 year old boy, and on another occasion for stripping for teens in a private home.
On Feb. 22 she rented a hotel room and police found her with three teens, ages 15, and 16. Open and empty beer cans on the floor, odor of marijuana, and a small amount of crack cocaine. Her excuse was that she didn’t want her kids to see her drinking and partying which is why she rented the hotel room, and her oldest son, 15, came to check up on her and his friends refused to leave.
I think she’s just those types of mom who tries to be so cool, and she has more fun with kids that age than people her age. I definitely think she needs some help though, she’s not a teenager she’s 35 and she needs to realize that. And a mother stripping for your kids friends, I would never talk to my mom again.

RE: Ambien Sleeping Pill?
5/16/2008 1:02:51 PM liljay
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punjaboy said: Even in the comercials for new and well developed sleeping pills they give out a warning that it may become addictve or "habitual" as they say it. I wouln't restrain to these. The only time I agree with taking sleeping pills is when on a long flight, those are like life savers and make time go by sooo much faster!



not just habitual and addictive.. they give you a long long list or side affects. but they say them real fast and quick so that you cant understand most of it.
RE: A Suburban Doctor
5/16/2008 1:07:38 PM liljay
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have any of you ever read taht one book, A Million Little Pieces?
Well in it he hears a story about the girl that he falls in love with at the treatment center.The sotry was that one time her boyfriend brought her to a house so they could pick up drugs and she would sleep with the dealers if they couldn't pay, and once it was 11 guys in a row she had to sleep with, and she didn't want to do it after 3 or 4 but she was so messed up on drugs and she couldn't get her self out of it and they just kept going... I think thats the worst trading sex for drugs story ever.
this one nurse
5/16/2008 1:08:02 PM liljay
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A nurse is being arrested for stealing drugs from a hospital vault. Dawn smith had gone on a small shopping spree in an area she was not authorized to be in. last Friday she left her assigned floor and went into the hospitals drug vault. She used a password and biomedic fingerprinting technology to enter the vault. She took vial after vial of Zofran, Benadryl, morphine, and Demerol using the names of patients in the hospital and all these patients were not under her case. She now claims she no longer has the drugs and is in a cell at the hospital until they can transfer her to jail.
What I don’t get is Zofran is used just to stop vomiting, and Benadryl is an over the counter medication. So why would she have to steal those? I understand the morphine and Demerol since they’re addictive but not the others. I wonder if she kept them for her or is selling them… interesting!!

RE: Family Love
5/16/2008 1:10:10 PM liljay
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xx_babygal_xx said: My mom is really sensitive and my brother is almost impossible to talk to!  She's always like whats wrong with you, is it that time of the month!?  I swear she asks that every week lol.

I'll tell my mom this and she'll yell back saying no and to shutup about it, but then I come to the conclusion that its metopause. But she refuses to admit it!!!
RE: Shoes anyone?
5/16/2008 1:15:45 PM liljay
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rainbowbright said: One of my girl friends has over 150 pairs of shoes.  It's curazzy and she keeps them all in shoe boxes so basically she stacks all of her shoes up and has a stool to reach them.  And she has a pair of Manolos that she's never worn!  Tons and tons of Baker heels, it's like she has every color shoe you can think of.  I don't see the point if you're not going to wear them :p


I'm sure you love being her friend, you can borow them all!
RE: Re: Geriatric Substance Abuse
5/16/2008 1:18:03 PM liljay
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But dont you think older people are wise enough to know whats right and wrong and that abusing substances is wrong?
my best advice
5/16/2008 1:26:19 PM liljay
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I once went to my high school councelor for a meeting and some how ended up talking to him about my personal life. I had so many problems that I seemed utterly hopeless.And instead of teling me he was going to talk to my teachers and tell them to go easy on me (like I hoped) he asked me if I believed in God. I told him I did, and he gave me the best advice, he told me to just leave everything in Gods hands. I argued about this and told that I cant just do that I cant just make God do all the work for me, I have to do something too. And he just said no, and to just leave it all in his hands and that I shouldn't do anything. And I did. I stopped trying to make things better or worse, I left it neutral and God untangled all my problems. I trully believe thats the best advice I have ever recieved, even though it was so simple.
RE: Re: No More Reality TV
5/16/2008 1:27:58 PM liljay
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I get mad when I watch those reality TV shows, so many of those people are just so fake and it frustrates me. And they never pic normal people they pic the crazy people who can be so rude so that it spices up the show. I just dont like them.
RE: Re: Video Game
5/16/2008 1:33:27 PM liljay
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My little sister is TOTALLY addicted to video games. Espeically on her nintendo DS.. But I think these games actually make kids angrier. Everytime my sister loses she starts throwing things around and screaming and pounding. She gets so mad about it. And if someones sitting next to her, shell hit them saying it's their fault she lost.
RE: when will they learn??
5/16/2008 1:34:31 PM liljay
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I think that one show, intervention, or shows about people with addictions will teach the world, itll help a lot.
RE: Re: Having Fun without Drugs
5/16/2008 1:36:50 PM liljay
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Also get them into new hobbies all the time. Like one summer have them go swiming all day long, another get them tennis lessons. Keep changing their routine. Change is good. Dont give them time to get bored so they could resort to drugs. Also watch out who their friends are. That plays a big part.
RE: Youthful Sex
5/16/2008 1:38:37 PM liljay
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I think thats really bad. Sex is meant for just one person and that one person is supposed to be the one you share the rest of your life with. Your sharing your body with that person, and it shouldn't be just anyone. Sex has become so cliche now.
RE: Visiting your ex for sex. Double-U Tee Eff?
5/16/2008 1:42:54 PM liljay
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I dont think a person can ever trully trully be over the other if they are having sex all the time and just broke up. They probably still have some feelings for each other. Unless they have been broken up for a long time. But I think its better for people to have sex with their ex rather than going and having sex with other people.
RE: Drawing the Line Early
5/16/2008 1:44:50 PM liljay
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AliBaba said: I doubt a relationship can ever reach its full potential when centered around drugs and alcohol.  I think it's best to feel comfortable about that person because when you're doing things you don't feel comfortable with, then you'll end up spoiling the whole relationship and ruining something that could've been great.  And sometimes couples stick together just because of drugs and alcohol, they think they're happy together but they're really not. 


I think when couples stick together just because of drugs and alcohol is only because they understand each other. They understand the other needs the drugs and alcohol and most other people they meet wont. But their relationship most definately will not be a happy one and I doubt it would last.
RE: torn..
5/16/2008 1:48:35 PM liljay
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I personally would back out. Try to get over him and just keep away wait for him to get his life on track. And if you feel like you really cant live without him after months of being apart then thats your sign to make it work and that its meant to be.
RE: 5 year old with drugs
5/16/2008 1:52:12 PM liljay
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This is completely ridiculous to leave dangerous drugs within the childs reach. What if he ate it. Or saw mommy smoking it before and decided to try it. I know I did that when I was little. Grandpa used to always smoke cigars. They smelt good too, so once me and my brother sat in his office, and pretended to be grandpa, I sat behind his big desk and he on the chair accross. We took one of his fat cigars, cut the head like he used to and then tried smoking it. OFcourse after one puff we were coughing our heads off but we still did it. and this kid could've too.
RE: Re: Simple Guide On How To Start Recovering
5/16/2008 1:54:30 PM liljay
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I think this is the smartest way to quit. By slowly but surely quitting. Cutting off cold turkey is hard and most likely have side affects, but this is better.
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