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Re: Pills to help you quit drinking
2/7/2008 6:14:14 AM at4101
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I've heard of them and heard that they will make ya puke all over the place. One of the problems I hear though is that the pills will trigger other drinks and sometimes food too so you may be yacking over things you don't want to yack over.
Re: Pregnancy
2/7/2008 9:53:34 PM at4101
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My sister quit both times when she found out she was pregnant. I know it wasn't easy for her, but it makes it a bit easier knowing that you are not just affecting yourself now, but another human. I have also known a few people that just could not quit even though they were pregnant. Luckily their babies were ok but that's just not a chance I would be willing to take.
Re: Have your hands turned yellow?
2/7/2008 9:55:48 PM at4101
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None for me, but I do notice the smell on my hands after I smoke. I am so afraid of offending someone with the smell that I always keep hand sanitizer with me and use it after I smoke. I think the yellow fingers comes more from extremely heavy smokers and filterless cig. smokers.
Re: Smokers: Are/Were You Partial to One Brand of Cigarette?
2/7/2008 9:57:54 PM at4101
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Latifa wrote
When I was younger it was whatever I could afford at the time and so if I had to get a cheaper brand then I would but now I stick to the lighter cigarettes and normally Marlboro lights too, Benson and Hedges were a favourite at one time but now they choke me to death!


I always wanted to try Benson and Hedges but never got around to it. Another brand I would smoke every so often would be Newports. I hated them and they were so strong but many people I knew loved them and so every now and then I'd smoke them too.
Re: Fast Food prices are on the rise but people are still buying
2/7/2008 9:59:48 PM at4101
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Latifa wrote
Yep the prices will increase and it will put off a few of us but for others it will definitely not do anything, I love fast food and only over the last year have changed my eating habits but would always go to McDonalds on my lunch break as it used to be the cheapest thing around to buy and the quickest.


I remember a time when a Quarter Pounder combo meal was 2.99. I would suck those things down and not gain a pound back in the day. Now they are almost 5.00 per combo and I don't dare touch them.
Re: Hunger Means Addiction
2/7/2008 10:01:39 PM at4101
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Panda11 wrote


Babies conceived
during a period of famine are at risk for developing addictions later in
life. Modern brain research has shown
that if the brain is not able to develop at normal rates while the child is in
the womb, neuro-developmental abnormalities can occur which give rise to
susceptibility to addiction.




This is interesting. I have never heard of this before. I'd love to learn more about this research. If you don't mind, can you share your stats/ sources?
Re: Yahoo Messenger addiction...myth or fact
2/7/2008 10:06:17 PM at4101
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Fardreamer,

I have a friend that will leave her Yahoo messenger on all night with the volume on so even when she is sleeping she is still available to talk as she will have her buddies just "buzz" her and wake her up. When she leaves the computer, she turns her messenger on her cell phone. She will instant message at dinner, she will instant message in the movies, she will even instant message in the middle of work. So from what you have said I don't think you are anywhere near an addiction. My friend however has some serious messenger issues.
Re: Is anyone addicted to a specific sex act?
2/7/2008 10:09:28 PM at4101
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BettyBlue wrote
I know this is a site where anyone can read posts and threads, so I won't get too graphic here, but I am wondering if sexually-active people can get addicted to a specific sex act. For instance, if a man or woman wants oral sex all the time, is that to be considered a mere fetish, or is it a true addiction?


I think a certain act could become an addiction. I've read and heard stories before where the only act a man would want is oral sex, and became so fixated on it that he was not interested in anything else but that. Day and night it is all he thought about, and at the risk of making his partner very unhappy that is all he was interested in. In my book that would totally be an addiction and one that could possibly ruin a relationship at that.
Re: Edit Option
2/7/2008 10:11:20 PM at4101
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alexdg1 wrote
Quenlin wrote
From personal experience, edit buttons are more trouble than they're worth, it's too easy to offend a huge amount of people, and then edit your post to make them sound like the bad guys. I see it all the time.

Although, deleting posts would be a good feature to have.


Yes, deleting posts WOULD be really good, especially when members (like me, for instance) accidentally double-post, like I just did in another thread!


I have seen this happen quite a lot. I will see the same thread over and over like three times. Sometimes I don't know which one to reply to.
Switching to lighter  brands didn't help me
2/11/2008 8:41:00 PM at4101
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I have always been a smoker of light cigarettes, but at one point I switched over to Ultra lights thinking that eventually the lesser amount of nicotine would help me quit. It didn't, and in fact I was just smoking more to catch up on the nicotine that my body was used to getting. Has this happened to anyone else ? I even tried to switch to Menthol too thinking I would hate it and that didn't help either.
Re: Smokers: Are/Were You Partial to One Brand of Cigarette?
2/11/2008 8:45:01 PM at4101
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I think that nicotine is nicotine regardless of what brand. Any cigarette with nicotine will get you hooked. It has nothing to do with personal preference to the flavors of different brands.
Re: Diet drinks and addiction: Denial?
2/11/2008 9:02:20 PM at4101
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alexdg1 wrote
As we all know, there is a lot of pressure - some of it valid for health reasons, some of it not - on people, particularly women, to lose weight.

Many companies, including snack food and soft drink manufacturers, make billions of dollars with diet versions of their "junk" food and sodas, promising consumers that their products are healthy and will help them lose weight.

The truth is, though, that diet sodas are really more harmful than the bottlers would have the public know. Not only do the artificial sweeteners mess up the brain by making it think it's tasting sugar when it's not, but they mess up the metabolism and, eventually, people who drink diet sodas eventually gain weight.

Thing is, we told a relative of ours who is constantly buying and drinking Diet Coke and Diet Pepsi all this, and she said, point blank: "Oh, I don't drink diet sodas anymore." Which, sadly, isn't true. She bought diet sodas as late as last week.

How can someone lie like this? Is she in denial, or what?


Just like any other addict, she'd rather not hear you preach about something she is addicted to, so the best thing in her mind to do is to tell you that she doesn't drink it anymore.
Re: Heath Ledger Dead
2/13/2008 6:24:10 AM at4101
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Quenlin wrote
He died from an accidental overdose. Besides, who cares about celebs? Some guy has died from too many sleeping pills, la-dee-da. Happens thousands of times a year.

It's not as though he was addicted to drugs.


I agree. I mean I am really sorry that Heath Ledger died, but why do celebrities get glorified so much? I will miss his acting though. He was brilliant.
Re: How can I tell the difference between just odd behavior and mental illness?
2/13/2008 6:26:58 AM at4101
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alexdg1 wrote
Hi all.

I have a really difficult situation at home - I have a relative who has always had anger-management and self-esteem issues, as well as a penchant for odd behavior. For instance, a few weeks ago she came over for dinner and, because we were watching the end of a movie on a DVD, she went off to the living room and sulked rather than (a) join us or (b) choose another movie we could have enjoyed together. She also does horrible things to others, then denies she ever did them and will insist that she's never in the wrong, while everyone else is.

Thing is, I'm convinced my relative is mentally ill, but the rest of the family insists that it's just odd behavior and that she's mentally fit.

Are there any tried-and-true methods to test this?


Yes, it DOES sound a bit like bipolar disorder, but of course we are only guessing on these boards being most of us are not doctors, and also only have what you typed here to go by. But people with mood swings from highs to lows with denial have been known to be bipolar. Is she up for seeing a health professional to get diagnosed?
Re: Ozzy Ozborne
2/13/2008 6:29:00 AM at4101
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Quenlin wrote
It's a neurological thing? I thought he had suffered a stroke and that's why he walked and talked a little odd.

All I know is that Ozzy is rather crazy, good singer, but he has some serious issues upstairs. Probably due to drugs, remember when he bit that animals head off? How in the Hell did he stay outside a nuthouse after pulling that off?


He could have possibly had a stroke as well, but I know that he also has a neurological disorder.

Yeah, one has to be on drugs or just plain crazy bite a bat's head off. I think Ozzy had a bit of both.
How much did/do you smoke per day?
2/13/2008 6:34:00 AM at4101
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I have been on and off since New Years trying to keep my resolution to stop smoking. I have relapsed twice but now I am back to being a non smoker, and so far I have been good on my word. When I was a smoker, I would go through a pack a day. How much does/did everyone else smoke ?
Re: Chewing tobacco, you're thoughts?
2/13/2008 6:46:14 AM at4101
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Quenlin wrote
My uncle chews tobacco and he thinks that it's safer because it doesn't go into the lungs, I don't know for sure but I seriously doubt it. Don't know why you would chew it, because you can't exactly swallow it without getting a really upset stomach.

Can anyone set the record straight? I don't want him to wind up getting mouth cancer.


Yes, Megan is right. He is running a high risk of mouth cancer, and it is just as addictive. I know many people that have quit smoking and started "dipping" so they would still have the nicotine because they thought it would be more healthy. It's not and from what I have read it is just as bad as smoking.
Re: No More Reality TV
2/14/2008 8:28:11 PM at4101
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It depends on the reality show too. Most of them I can't stand, but there are a few here and there that I really enjoy. For example, Celebrity Rehab on Vh-1 is interesting, and something I watch regularly when I can.

I think the biggest problems with these shows is the overkill. Even before the Writers Strike, these shows were being thrown at us left and right, and it got to the point of being ridiculous.
Re: Britney Spears and her Never Ending Troubles
2/14/2008 8:32:06 PM at4101
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alexdg1 wrote
Leighdu wrote
JazzyAllie wrote
It's hard to tell whether things you hear about her are fake or real, but yes it was a hugh ordeal also when they came to physically take them away from her. She required a lot of attention but she's pushed everyone out of her life including her kids.


I read somewhere that she is working hard to get her kids back. I wish her luck with that. Celebrity or not, that has to be extremely tough on her.


I don't mean to sound mean or harsh; I'm sure that Britney used to be a nice girl before she became Britney Spears Inc and fell prey to the celebrity black hole that sucks a lot of people in, but still, she surrounded herself with a clique of yes-men and yes-girls who don't know how to tell her that she's a train wreck, metaphorically speaking.


How do you know shes still not a nice girl? Yes, I am sure she has issues because that much is apparant by having her children taken away. But the media has a lovely way of twisting and exaggerating things and making celebs look like the spawns of Satan. Plus, you nor I don't really know what her "clique" is telling her or what they or not telling her. You can't rely solely on tabloids and media for your source of information.
Re: Brad Renfro
2/14/2008 8:35:33 PM at4101
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Frosty011 wrote
I can't see how people with so much talent can just throw it all away for some powder. They're suposed to be role models but they're just contributing to others becoming drug users. Celebrities influence kids and their fans so much I swear. That's so sad though it seems like celebrities dying from substance abuse is on the rise more than ever!


Normally I would say who cares because there are millions of people everyday that overdose, but the more I think about it the more it pisses me off when celebrities do this, and especially someone like Brad Renfro, being so young and having so many kids look up to him.
Re: men recovery more difficult
2/14/2008 8:38:23 PM at4101
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I agree with the previous posters. Men are much less likely to admit they have a problem as compared to women. However, I think that once they acknowledge that they have a problem, they are on an even scale with women with it comes to overcoming their addiction.
Re: Valentines Day
2/14/2008 8:40:44 PM at4101
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Quenlin wrote
Well, since my girl dumped me, I'll be spending Valentines day munching on chocolates and hugging a big pink teddybear to ease my grief. With a devious smile on my face.

Maybe I'll give them to that cute girl in town, she loves chocolate. <3


Argh, that sucks Quenlin. Sorry to hear that. Sometimes I wish Valentines Day was not so overrated. I am not doing much either. Just hanging at home and watching movies.
Re: Whats the hardest part ?
2/16/2008 6:43:59 PM at4101
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megan22 wrote
Is it the craving for nicotine for you, the fact that you don't have a smoke in your hand, or just the fact that you have done it so long that you would feel odd not smoking anymore?


The withdrawal symptoms are the hardest for me. When I quit, all I can think about it smoking. Then I get dizzy, nauseated, and stressed out. I think if I didn't have withdrawal symptoms I could stay smoke free once and for all.
Smokers Toothpaste
2/16/2008 6:46:00 PM at4101
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I used to use Pearl Drops ( I think thats the name), which is a toothpaste made specifically for smokers. It has been years since I used it ( I switched to Rembrandt) and it really worked great for me. I was looking for it again the other day and I can't find it anywhere. Does anyone know if it is still made ?
Re: Breath Free
2/16/2008 6:48:43 PM at4101
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Wall E wrote
All of those ad campaigns and commercials that keep saying "Quit Smoking," are actually just triggers for you to smoke. Whenever we see sentences like those or "Don't Smoke," all we see is the smoke part, so it triggers our brains to start craving. So, the proper way to say it without creating a trigger is to say Breath Free or something like that.


I 100% agree with this. The word "smoke", "smoking", "smoke free", and "cigarettes" should be left out of these campaigns. Breath Free would be great, or even just talking about healthy living by dropping bad habits.
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