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RE: How to Keep a Job with Bipolar?
6/26/2008 4:42:50 PM alessandra
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When I was battling bouts of depression, I was in therapy at least twice a week because I really couldn't afford to lose my job, but I was going through a lot of emotional trauma also.  It ended up helping me a lot, because I couldn't always rely on my family to help me with my problems.  I went through 3 therapists until I finally found mine, but I'm glad that I did.  She helped me realize a lot of things and why I was feeling so terrible.  I don't fully know what bipolar is but I heard in severe cases, it can lead to suicide, I think if she's been diagnosed with the condition, she should consider a therapist or at least medication to keep her stabilized because getting a new job can be stressful for any person.
RE: Live to 100
6/26/2008 4:51:07 PM alessandra
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I would think that staying in the sun a lot would make you live longer because I always feel better when I spend time in the sun, but I guess too much of anything is bad.  Being married makes sense, and smoking haha... duh.  I didn't know that it took that many years off your life though, 13-15 years is a lot of memories and happiness to miss out on.
RE: Internet Addiction a Mental Disorder
6/26/2008 5:00:23 PM alessandra
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It seems like there's a really fine line betwee Internet addiction and a hobby.  Sometimes I just get on the Internet for fun if I'm bored, or if I'm interested in something, I'll do a little research on it.  But a lot of people spend time on the Internet because it's their main source of friends, or escape like bloggers.  I don't really think there's anything wrong with that, unless it's to the extremes where you're blogging to the point where you're neglecting your family, that's just wrong. 
Opium in Iran
6/27/2008 12:00:55 PM alessandra
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    More than a million Iranians are addicted to some form of opium, heroin or opium derivative, according to the government, and some estimates run as high as 10 million.  Iran's government is trying to curb addiction's huge social costs, it has been more supportive of drug treatment than any other government in the Islamic world.  They have realized that an addict is a social reality.
    Opium has deep cultural roots in Iran.  It has been considered an effective painkiller, and its use is socially acceptable.  Many addicts start smoking opium occasionally, and move on to heroin and other opium-based narcotics after becoming dependant. 
    In many cities, a bride brings the equipment for smoking opium as part of her dowry.  Before the 1979 revolution, the government gave opium to enable them to avoid drug deals.  Opium in Iranian's culture is like champaigne in France.  Four years ago, 54 percent of addicts in Iran used opium, only 30 percent of addicts now use opim, with many having switched to crack.  Dealers introduced a further refinement or heroin known here as crack.  Unrelated to crack cocaine, the drug is mostly smoked, is castly more powerful than raw oopium and has caught on rapidly.  Some addicts began using this new crack, unknowingly that it was addictive. 
    The government also must supply its addicts wthat are serving time in prison.  One addict talked about how he became infected with HIV while serving a 25-year prison sentence for robbery and selling drugs.  He said they had to share a pump for injecting heroin.  Basically it was a thick needle hooked to a pump. 
    The number of addicts taking methadone has increased to 100,000 from 5,000 in two years.  Iran could benefit a lot from inputing new treatment centers.  They really have no option, because the problem will only get worse, especially witht he high demand for opium in Afganistan. 
RE: Allooo!
6/27/2008 2:27:09 PM alessandra
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Welcome :D
RE: Equitherapy
6/27/2008 2:39:18 PM alessandra
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Getting over an addiction can leave you feeling lonely, having a dog or any animal really can make you feel better.  They help you be more caring and conscious of other people's emotions.  Caring for animals gave me more of a purpose. 
RE: Drug Epidemic
7/1/2008 4:02:57 PM alessandra
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All of the drugs in Hollywood have a big influence on our youth too.  And in Europe, some of their biggest celebrities have thorough publicized drug habits.  At some points like you mentioned, say 40-50 years ago when drugs were making a big name for themseves, we only know a little bit about how many people actually used.  Now, it's a lot easier to find out whose been arrested for what, and even who has relapsed and is still using.  With all of the media about drug use, it could just seem like everyone is using. 
RE: US takes the lead
7/2/2008 1:54:53 PM alessandra
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I think I read something similar to this, it sort of suprised me.  The US had higher rates of cocaine use than Columbia and any other nation too.  That shows how readily available drugs are in the U.S. 
RE: refuse treatment
7/2/2008 2:00:15 PM alessandra
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    The hardest thing for me was admitting to myself that I actually had an addiction.  I also wasn't sure that I was ready for treatment.  Quitting drugs is extremely hard for addicts, it's a whole lifestyle change and it means coming to terms with your behavior and doing something to make up for it.
    I thought drugs were the only thing that made me, me.  I couldn't picture myself not smoking pot. It was a scary thought, but I didn't really care. Sobriety wasn't appealing to me. 
    What finally got me to stay sober was when I started getting into church.  I discovered that living right was actually worth it.  I never cared about making good decisions because it was so much easier to numb myself so that  wouldn't care.  Now I feel so much better about myself and the decisions I'm making, because I know I can be a positive influence on someone's life. 
New Bipolar Scholarships
7/17/2008 1:56:36 PM alessandra
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After doing some research, I was pretty disappointed with the amount of scholarships there are for people living with bipolar disorder.  Although there are a few big ones like The Bipolar Lives Scholarship, which gives a lot of opportunities to those struggling.  With bipolar in the news constantly right now, it's done a lot to raise awareness and encourage support.  One of my best friends has a mild form of bipolar and is affected by it, it's like she always has extra weight on her shoulders.. it can be really hard to deal with, especially since she's trying to do good in school and also maintain a steady job. 
RE: strip joints
7/17/2008 2:47:04 PM alessandra
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If he told her that she's hurting his feeling by what she does, then that's a good sign that she's addicted to strip clubs.  She most likely needs support to stop because what happeneds at strips clubs is all about sex, and eventually having fun could lead to her cheating on him.  So I think he needs to stick to his word and set an ultimatum, either she stops going and stays with him, or if she keeps making excuses and keeps going, then she'll lose him for good. 
Personally I'd feel a little self conscious if I knew my boyfriend was visiting women at strip clubs.  And they're really expensive too.  Usually it's a minimum 150$ for a lap dance, 1000$ for VIP rooms... and it's all with different men/women who just want your money.  And visiting a strip club is not about adding fun to a relationship, it's about self-centered sexual gratification without any consideration of how it will affect others and without any respect to oneself.
Kate Moss Refuses to Quit Smoking
7/21/2008 9:35:27 AM alessandra
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Kate Moss, who seems to always have a cigarette in hand, has publically admitted that she refuses to quit smoking.  She's been modeling for over 20 years and is starting her own fashion line, but can't seem to find it in herself to quit.  She claims "It's who she is and doesn't want to seem phony."  I think this is a terrible excuse, and she's setting a bad example to her fans and to other models.  Celebrities who openly admit to addiction are sabotaging other's aspirations of making an impact on nicotine addiction. 
Losing Faith
7/21/2008 9:43:12 AM alessandra
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A close friend of mine has recently told me that he's completely lost his faith in God.  He claims there is no God and religion is just a big scam, there's no evidence of it... and we can't prove any of it is really true.  I was so suprised by this because I've always known him as a believer, and now it's all changed.  I don't want my friend to go to hell, but he's so intent on proving me wrong about God.  Everything he was saying made me sick to my stomach.  I plan to keep talking to him about God and praying for him... Has anyone else had any experiences like this?
Rich/Poor Rehabilitation
7/21/2008 10:10:42 AM alessandra
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    Do you think it's easier for the extremely wealthy to stay sober than it is for the poor/middle class?  Most drug addicts start using when they are well off and have the extra money to throw away on drugs.  But if you have no resources, funding your habit is a full time job, maybe even a criminal one.  Men are more likely to commit crimes and women are less likely to commit crimes, but instead sell themselves.  It's a vicious cycle that drug users with resources have the luxury of avoiding.  They may even be able to avoid admitting they're an addict for a while.  You're never forced to find out how far you'll go to fuel your addiction.
    I kind of think all addicts are the same, emotionally at least.  Whether you have money or not, the feelings of self hatred are exactly the same.  You want to stop using, but you can't.  But if all addicts are the same in that sense, they are different when it comes to staying clean that wealth can help.  While getting clean is hard, staying clean in the outside world is harder. 
RE: 1 in 4
7/21/2008 10:32:28 AM alessandra
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I hope this trend of obesity is going to level out soon and eventually start to decrease.  Trends in America generally flow to other countries too.  It seems like some states are trying to become healthier and emphasize more physical fitness and even diet plans for overweight students. 
A Solution to the Porn Problem
7/25/2008 9:27:27 AM alessandra
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    With the availability of porn these days, its become a bigger epidemic than most of us realize.  One out of 10 adults admits to Internet sexual addiction.  And 47 percent of families say porn's a problem in their homes.  This epidemic of porn is even flodding the church.  Even pastors aren't immune.  Some 37 percent admit to struggling with porn.  Basically this problem of porn could happen to anyone...  Even women, about 17 percent are addicted.
    But for those tens of millions addicted to porn, there is a way out.  Start by telling yourself "You don't have to have it... you want to have it."  The point is not to make excuses, but clearly repent, then throw yourself to the Lord.  Once you repent, you're already making a huge choice.  You're saying, I want to be healthier.  Going to the Lord for strength and for the healing is the only key you have.
    It's important to quit cold turkey and clean house--getting rid of all porn materials and making sure you can't access it online.  You need to tell yourself, "I want this freedom.  I don't want this thing to control my life."  Also, you need to let someone else know about your addiction, so you can be held accountable, so they can watch your back.  You can't just do it alone.  You might stay sober for one year, but then a few peeks and suddenly you find yourseld back into a full-blown addiction.
RE: Are they on drugs?
7/25/2008 10:38:53 AM alessandra
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Most parents wait until their teen gets caught to finally start enforcing punishment.  But by that time, their son/daughter has already been off track and slipping into addiction.  I think the first sign they see, should be brough to attention right away. 
RE: Record High for RI
7/25/2008 10:46:27 AM alessandra
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These people with the record high blood alcohol levels must have been by themselves when getting behind the wheel.  No one in their right mind would let a sloppy, stumbling drunk person get behind the wheel of a car and drive away.  And yes, ridiculous is the right word to describe these people.  Killing someone and going to jail for twenty years isn't worth it.  Why can't they just call a taxi or a friend??
RE: sexual harassment in the workplace
7/25/2008 10:52:48 AM alessandra
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I think some people simply weren't taught office courtesy and boundaries in the workplace.  Not only is our body language important, but the words we use too.  Flirting is one thing, but continuous flirting makes others around the workplace uncomfortable.  Some of my friends will do things that I would never do.  I ususally tell them something, letting them know so they don't end up offending someone else or embarrassing themselves. 
RE: things to think about
7/25/2008 11:26:23 AM alessandra
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A lot of people are naive about eating disorders, but it can be pretty obvious if it's a close friend.  And people with eating disorders aren't always stick thin, even at their worst. It's become popular to be really skinny, but we should remain our ideal healthy body weight.
RE: need to read
7/25/2008 3:03:53 PM alessandra
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These sites are absolute trash.  All they require is a credit card number.. no prescription, nothing!  And once you buy from them, they send you all kinds of advertisements and sales on their pills.  It makes it hard for recovering addicts to stay clean because it's like habing a drug dealer knocking on your door.  It's way too easy.
Women Get Drunk, High and Addicted Faster Then Men
7/29/2008 3:01:11 PM alessandra
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    More than 20 million girls and women in the US abuse drugs and alcohol and 30 million more are addicted to cigarettes.  Women, pound for pound, not only get more drunk or higher faster than men, but also become addicted more easily.  Teenage girls now smoke, drink and abuse drugs as often as teenage boys.  For certain drugs, such as prescription painkillers, the abuse rate is higher in girls than boys.  Yet even as the rate of abuse becomes more equal, psychological and physiological factors combine to ensure that females are more greatly affected by drugs and alcohol.
    Each single drink hits a woman like a double.  A woman's body contains less water and more fatty tissue which increases alcohol absorption- compared to a male body.  And women have a lower activity level of an enzyme called alcohol dehydrogenase, whcih breaks down alcohol.
    The risk of addiction to alcohol and drugs, including nicotine, is approximatly doubled as well.  The reason may be hormonal of psychological.  Males and females abuse drugs for different reasons.  Teenage girls are more likely than boys to abuse illegal substances in order to loose weight, relieve stress or boredom, improve their mood, reduce sexual inhibitions, self-medicate depression, and increase confidence.
RE: its all her fault
7/29/2008 3:15:26 PM alessandra
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I was never singled out by a teacher at school but I saw a lot of students who were always the negative focus of the class.  One boy had troubled parents and he ended up being a trouble maker, but he was actually really smart, one of the smartest kids in school.  But my teacher still gave him a hard time and wouldn't spend extra time with him.  A lot of teachers have absolutely ruined kids, it's a shame.  And these troubled kids end up getting in more trouble as they get older and then other kids make fun of them too.
Boy, 18, dies after party degenerates into Brawl
7/31/2008 10:01:52 AM alessandra
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    A teenager was killed and at least two others are being investigated in connection with his death after a house party for high school students spilled out of control and erupted into a brawl.  But what emerged from interviews with deputies, family members and friends is a picture of a violent clash during a party.  A homeowner threw a birthday party for his son.  Dozens of friends were there including high school junior, Gregory Kennedy.
    Apparently there was a scuffle between some of the teenagers and then the group of rivals left.   Sometime later, a group of SUV's showed up to the party.  In the SUV's were some of the students from the original fight.  At least one person had a baseball bat or pipe.  Someone smashed a window at the home and everyone went outside, including Kennedy.
    Neighbors and deputies say that at least two dozen teenagers fought in the front yeard and the street.  Someone called 911 and the group scattered, leaving Kennedy on the ground, bleeding and unconscious.  When authorities got there, they did CPR on Kennedy and briefly revived him.  He was then flown to a nearby hospital and put on life support.
    On Wednesday morning, his mother had doctors remove Kennedy from life support.  She said her son was in the wrong place at the wrong time. - Why do parents think it's okay to throw parties for their underaged kids?  There's no telling what will happen, especially when there's alcohol involved.  Now hundreds of lives are affected and many lives ruined for a parents bad judgement.
Movies about Addiction/Recovery
7/31/2008 4:05:40 PM alessandra
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Hi everyone :D
 Just curious, if anyone has seen any good movies about alcohol/addiction/recovery...  looking for a handful of good flicks that depict any aspect related to this issue.  Thanks !
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