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Re: Denial??
1/16/2008 1:13:11 PM aiden
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I dunno if it'd say it that harshly hahha but you're right. I mean it's like getting mad at someone for smoking. It's sort of a rude thing to do because it affects everyone around you. But telling someone, "You're so fat gosh why do you eat so much," it doesn't necessarily help their situation, but who knows, it could..

Re: How many teens do you know that smoke?to ne
1/16/2008 1:25:14 PM aiden
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A lot of kids at my high school smoked. Especially seniors, they get to go off campus for lunch and it's like no big deal if they smoke. Some kids even smoke weed off campus and it's always akward when they come in lol. One time, my friend were getting a little annoyed with the smell in our history class and asked my teacher if he smoked and like why his classroom smelt so bad. He said wel, it's cus all you kids smoke and then come in here and stink up the class. Some teachers cared and some just didn't.
Re: How much sex do you have
1/16/2008 1:39:55 PM aiden
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Me n my girlfriend's frequency haha is minimum, 10. I'm just so attracted to her I have to have her like twice, sometimes three times a day. But in my health class, this professor told me that four times a week is recommended to stay healthy. It builds up your body's immunity and strengthens your endocrine system. :D
Re: I NEED HELP ABOUT SEX ADDICTION!!!!
1/16/2008 1:58:04 PM aiden
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You just need to take control over your addiction, don't let it overpower what you know is right. 17 is pretty young to be that premiscuous and I'm sure you're just having those raging teenage hormones, but you need to deal with them the right way. If you don't treat your addiction, it will only get worse. I'm sure there's a Planned Parenthood close to where you live, so make an appointment, get on birth control, and stop having multiple partners.
Re: Prostitution
1/16/2008 2:11:36 PM aiden
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Respectable? How can you use that word, I mean stripping in bars, pole dancing is one thing...working at hooters, yeah that's okay. But a prostitute as a profession, I mean come on, get real. Prostitution is for people that are desperately looking for a way out of whatever pain they're dealing with. It's a whole big cycle of pain, guilt, unsanitation, it's unreal to think about legalizing it. It will never happen.
Re: How do you think that casinos should deal with those with gambling addictions?
2/11/2008 11:03:32 AM aiden
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I saw a show about this recently. It was about a family man and he was pretty wealthy. He started going to the big casinos in Las Vegas, spending lots of money, at the time he could afford it. The casinos started noticing and they would offer him free suites, pay for his flight tickets to bring him out to play, to spend. Eventually, they were paying for his family to come, to go on vacations, very lavish. Eventually, he was losing his house and his family, so he got help. This opened up my eyes to how vicious these casinos are with their customers, they would love to fly out tons of gambling addicts and have them bring their friends too!
Re: Denial...how does a relative cope with someone in denial?
2/11/2008 11:10:46 AM aiden
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I think just talking to them in a rational way and letting them know that you're not trying to hurt them or threaten them is the best way to get through to them. They may need to be put on medication if they're mentally unstable. Living your life feeling paranoid and always having your guard up isn't a healthy way to live, especially for those around you.
Re: Social Anxiety
2/11/2008 11:15:41 AM aiden
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Yeah I think it's a little bit more than being shy. But it comes with feelings of being teased and vulnerability. Is it soemthing that you're born with or you develop it over time, I wonder?
Re: What's the best thing to do to help someone when they have a panic attack?
2/11/2008 11:24:35 AM aiden
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"All of a sudden, I felt a tremendous wave of fear
for
no reason at all. My heart was pounding,
my chest hurt, and it was
getting harder to breathe.
I thought I was going to die."




"I'm so afraid. Every time I start to go out,
I get that
awful feeling in the pit of my stomach
and I'm terrified that
another panic attack is coming."

Okay, I hate my life, my job sucks, the kids are fighting, I have
no money, I can’t breathe, my chest hurts, Oh my God I think I will
die, I can’t breathe ….

Talk yourself out of the attack before the attack takes you out!

Just Breath.

Sounds like a simple solution but when you are having an attack you
forget to breath. Once you begin to cut off your breath the attack goes
full force and knocks you to your knees.

Take long deep breathes.

Even as the anxiety attack is taking hold, if you keep taking the deep
breaths you will begin to take life from the attack and put the control
back with you. Your body isn’t causing the attacks, your MIND is. You
are thinking something that causes your body to react.

Silly but try to think of the anxiety attack as a physical being
that is trying to steal from you. Don’t let it, stand firm and fight
for your life.

The best tool I had was one friend that knew about the severity of the
attacks. I could call her anytime of day. The poor thing would answer
and I would be gasping for breath, telling her I can’t take anymore.
She would coach me through the attack and back to sanity.

Re: Cell Phone Dangers
2/11/2008 11:28:29 AM aiden
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It sounds legit to me, and scary enough to at least make me use the house phone when I'm at home.
Friend dying
2/11/2008 11:40:00 AM aiden
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I spoke with a friend yesterday that recently moved away. I guess it was stuck in my head, but last night I had a dream that they died and it was all my fault, I forget why but I was the main cause of it, even though it was a traffic accident, but I was the reason they were going to wherever they were going. Has that ever happend to you in a dream? Does it mean anything? It was such a terrible feeling.
Re: Valentine's Day Rampage
2/22/2008 11:43:13 AM aiden
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I don't understand why his doctor would perscribe him with so many meds if he was 'normal' his whole life...?
Re: Ozzy Ozborne
2/22/2008 11:51:21 AM aiden
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I think it was Oxycontin and some diff. perscription drugs.
Re: Vicodin
2/22/2008 11:56:01 AM aiden
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I'm sorry to hear about your situation, that sounds horrible. Do you have an aunt or uncle that could take you in for a while? Maybe your mom should go see a therapist cus she does sound pretty insane.
RE: Does anyone believe in prophetic dreams?
10/14/2008 2:20:22 PM aiden
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I think a lot of people have this ability on some level.  I get this too, like I'll day dream about seeing someone and within the next few days I'll see them.  Sometimes it's great because if it's someone I don't like, then I can sort of prepare myself for the worst.  The human mind is very strong, unfortunately we'll never know all that it's capable of, but in our dreams it's in complete control, maybe even capable of reading the future. 
RE: so unhygienic
10/14/2008 2:47:47 PM aiden
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Sometimes people eat certain foods that can make them have bad breath.  Or maybe it's just their culture to eat certain sour foods, and it reflects their body odor.  Also, depending on your diet, if you don't eat before bed then you can have super smelly breath in the morning.  And when dieting, this can be a big issue.  So maybe offer someone a mint if they have bad breath it might give them a hint.  They might be embarrassed, but it will be better for them. 
RE: high school sweethearts
10/14/2008 2:55:55 PM aiden
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    I think eventually you can get over them.  But I know that you will always have a place for them in your heart, maybe not strong enough to fall in love with them all over again, but you may always have some feelings for them, or the person they were.  I use to think that I was in love with my old best friend.  I thought we were soul mates.  But over the past three years things changed.  He's not the same person he use to be and although I still care about him, I don't necessarily have the same deep emotions anymore.  Not near the same as my current boyfriend. 
    But one thing I did find really interesting, is that your first love connection is similar to a drug addiction in the brain.  It's your first intensely strong emotional connection with someone, and when you're with that person, your brain produces similar chemicals and cravings that are associated with the affects of drugs.  So your brain can actually become programed to that certain love, it may never go away but it can diminish overtime.