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RE: Re: Can a movie or TV influence your sobriety?
5/1/2008 2:11:35 PM LarryKing12
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I think once you watch the whole movie it could actually make you think twice about using. Like in the movie "Ray", do you remember the scene where he got caught, it could make you think twice about doing it so you doing get introuble, or when he goes through all those withdrawals but he knows he needs to quit and he does, I would definately not want to do it just so I dont have to feel the pain he felt.But if its movies like friday after next and stuff like that, that could get you to want to do it more.
Afghan Opium
5/1/2008 2:11:55 PM LarryKing12
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The sky is clear and the sun is beaming down. The greeny blue rivers on one side and across the water as far out as you can see are miles and miles of poppy fields. Its beautiful but deadly. This time of year the harvest of opium is at full swing and farmers head out to the fields. One of the local farmers says there are no jobs and that this is their only option, they can’t afford to feed their families with corn or wheat. They want the government to create jobs for people in Helmand then they can exterminate poppies.
The farmer also describes how the opium is taken out. After the poppy loses its leaves, the bulb on the inside is slashed five times over several weeks. By the fifth slash the bulb bleeds oozing brown gunk, which is scraped off and put into containers. That is the opium. It is taken into nearby towns and sold upon a chain then smuggled over boarders. The farmers get paid £5 a day but they scrape off about £100 worth of opium at that time.
I think instead of spending all our money losing so many lives in Iraq we should be helping countries like Afghanistan. By helping them, we are also helping ourselves because we’d be getting these deadly drugs off the streets. My theory is if we work together with Britain in helping Afghans by providing some jobs, we’d be one step closer to a better world.

RE: Telling Friends Goodbye
5/1/2008 2:14:06 PM LarryKing12
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Melissa said: Yeah, I agree with you guys.  But his friend ended up calling him recently to apologize and that he still wants to be friends with him.  I think that when someone decides to give up drugs/alcohol, that it's really important to pull your closest friends even closer to you because it's going to be a long process.  Your friends know you best and they'll know when you're going though a depression or wanting to use and that's when you'll need them the most. 


Its really true, when going through recovery you need as much support as you could get. And losing your friends will only make things harder on you.
RE: Hello
5/1/2008 2:15:48 PM LarryKing12
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Have you thought about therapy? I think you can pull through it as long as your wife sticks with you, and I'm sure you can make it :) Good luck!
RE: Bible talks about Adultrey
5/1/2008 2:17:11 PM LarryKing12
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Doesn't everyone interpret it differently though?
RE: Kids watching South Park
5/1/2008 2:20:01 PM LarryKing12
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If you prevent yourself you coulds stop. I'm surrounded by people cussing always, I really think the only place I go where the people dont cuss is at work, but everywhere else all my friends family all cuss. But I dont find it polite and I dont do it. I dont think shows really play as big of an influence as some make it seem.
RE: Addicted to Addiction
5/1/2008 2:23:26 PM LarryKing12
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DiZzie said: Lol do you buy all the celebrity tabloids too?  I'd much rather buy a book or just save my $1.50 for something else.  I can't believe there's magezines completely devoted to gossip. 


They make so much profit out of it too! really they're millionaires out of it! and celebs even sell their stories to the press. Like Jamie Lynn spears, how she sold her pregnancy story to US weekly for a million dollars! thats crazy.
RE: Re: Therapy for family members
5/1/2008 2:26:37 PM LarryKing12
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Adrian said: My mom is going through a similar situation with my brother.  He's 20 years old and just recently quit smoking pot, like 2 days ago.  Even though he promised her that he would give up his habit, he kept smoking... the promise was made over a year ago.  And she just found out that he's failing all of his classes in college.  He has a scholarship and he's failed a lot of the classes he took.  So now he's thinking about starting over at a junior college and giving up his scholarship.  I can tell that shes feeling so overwhelmed right now but she basically told him that if he doesn't start passing his classes, then he'll have to move out and find a job.  I'm not really sure what to tell her either to make her feel better. 


Maybe you should try talking to your brother about it. show him how much it bothers your mom. Honestly I dont think him failing would have to do with drugs because if hes doing them now and hasn't stopped then when he got the scholarship wasn't he also still smoking? I think its just laziness and preoccupation with other things thats making him fail. But talk to him about it  maybe your help will help him more than a parent would.
RE: Dejavu
5/1/2008 2:31:50 PM LarryKing12
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I get it a lot too. It feels like a form of psychic abilities but some psychiatrists ascribe it to a mismatching in the brain that causes the brain to mistake the present for the past. That makes sense too but I guess there are a lot of theories for Deja vu.
RE: Worst nightmare....ever?
5/1/2008 2:35:39 PM LarryKing12
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My worst nightmare I was in a car with my friend and he was driving sooo fast down a highway and just cutting off all the cars and laughing and i didn't have my seat belt on either and I was being thrown around in my seat and then I see a big truck with its headlights right infront of us and I knew we were going to die, I covered my face and then woke up ina  hospital, I was asking the nurse about my friend but then I woke up and never found out what happened. It was so wierd it felt so real and I was really so scared I woke up with sweat all over me and that never happens to me.
RE: Too Sexy
5/1/2008 2:38:21 PM LarryKing12
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I really think they pin point a bit too much on her and its wrong. She's young. Especially at 15 thats when kids make most of their mistakes. I made my biggest mistakes when I was 15. And thats always the rebellious stage. We portray her as such an innocent girl but in all reality she is a normal teenager with the paparazzi on her butt telling the world about every wrong move she has made.
RE: Sex Rampage
5/1/2008 2:41:04 PM LarryKing12
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I also know of a girl that did this too. I just thought that she turned into a slut. But now that I think about it I think that it is just loneliness, maybe she thinks that by sleeping with all these guys atleast one of them will make her forget about him, and that she can have any guy she wants so why is she so crazy about him? Maybe? I dunno.
RE: calender girls lol
5/1/2008 2:43:47 PM LarryKing12
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I would never ever let my wife do that. And if its being sold around the community too it will get into our kids hands in some way or another. I dont want guys looking at my wife and knowing what she looks like naked. I think thats wrong. Also who would want to buy picture of naked middleaged moms?
RE: Alcopop taxes going UUUP
5/1/2008 2:45:26 PM LarryKing12
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I agree everything is going up now. And if they want to buy alcohol they're going to either way. Instead of having something to sip on that tastes good and gets you drunk they'll probably take a few shots get way more drunk and drink a soda on top of it.
RE: Shocking Facts
5/1/2008 2:47:05 PM LarryKing12
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Nacho said: 14 MILLION are addicted to alcohol, that's so much!  I've been around alcoholics my entire life and it's caused a lot of misery in my family.  If there's 14 million people that are addicted to alcohol, then there's at least 28 million people affected by alcohol addiction.  It's so sad how someone can just give up on life just to be drunk, their entire lives are centered around alcohol, not their kids, or their spouses, or jobs, but alcohol!


I agree, its crazy how a simple fluid can take over a life so greatly and affect so many others.
RE: Mtv generation
5/1/2008 2:52:33 PM LarryKing12
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If you think about it, when they show all those partys on TV and all these kids drinking and doing everything that they do, the writers didn't just make it up. Thats what kids really do every weekend. Its not just kids learning from TV but the TV learning from the kids and their behaviors. And Tv shows the bad sides of things too not only the good and the fun things, but also the bad. Some kids overdosing, throwing up, getting introuble all the bad things show up on TV also. I really disagree with blaming the TV for how kids party too much because with or without the TV thats how they are going to be and are going to stay.
RE: Celeb Hit By Drunk Driver
5/1/2008 2:54:42 PM LarryKing12
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My friends moms car got hit when it was parked and it flew all the way across the street, only thing that stopped it from flying into a house was another car that was in the way. It was also a drunk driver that hit her car. Its amazing how drinker still insist on getting behind the wheel.
Methadone kids
5/1/2008 4:14:23 PM LarryKing12
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A 12 year old girl died off of a methadone overdose after taking pills from a 15 year old boy. The boy took the pulls from his father’s drawer, he knew what they were. He brought them to the girl, Dana Marie Regan, him and his friend took 2 pills while the girl took four. He felt sick and went home and left Dana with his friend. She was found dead the next day.
Methadone is best known as a prescription drug that curbs heroin addiction but increasingly is prescribed as a painkiller. The number of methadone deaths nationwide rose from 786 in 1999 to 4,462 in 2005.
Wisonsin lowring drinking age
5/2/2008 1:34:58 PM LarryKing12
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Wisconsin is just one of the many states that are considering lowering their drinking age from 21 to 19! Considering that people 18 and older are eligible for military services. Missouri and Minnesota may lower it to 18. This will probably cause a lot of teenagers to cross the borders into these states to buy alcohol. Honestly I think it should be 18 though, because it doesn’t make sense that a person is an adult at 18 but basically all they are allowed to do is live on their own. They can’t gamble, or drink or anything, so how are they considered adults if they can’t do anything still? People also think that the drunk driving rates will go up and things like that, but the teenagers that will drink when the drinking age is lowered are going to be the same ones that already illegally drink right now. I don’t think it will make much of a difference.
RE: What do you think that the toughest part of recovering is?
5/2/2008 1:37:13 PM LarryKing12
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Melissa said: Pain is only weakness leaving the body.  I think the hardest part is telling friends and sometimes family that you're not going to do drugs and alcohol anymore.  And turning away free drugs/alcohol is a hard thing to do for sure. 


Sticking to your word and not giving into pressure and cravings.
RE: Psych help
5/2/2008 1:38:29 PM LarryKing12
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I honestly think you could make it without the help of a psychologist. But with one is always the easier and secure way to stop an addiction.
RE: Imagine this!!!
5/2/2008 1:41:50 PM LarryKing12
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Mrs.Ugly said: I was in psychology and we watched this video and I guess they made this machine that scans people as they walk by. If people are hiding something they are usually scared, and the blood rushes to their face. Also when people lie the blood rushes to their face, this machine can see all that. And basically can point out all the suspicious people. I think if that was there it would have caught this man right away and all the other people who have smuggled drugs.This would be a very good machine to have in airports.


they have this machine in oceans 13 that can tell in casinos weather a person cheated the system of actually won by luck. I liked that scene.
RE: Shoes anyone?
5/2/2008 1:46:00 PM LarryKing12
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mrsmtdew said: Oh dear! SHOES! I used to have a major problem with shoes! When I was single I had over 300 pair of shoes. I would buy them no matter if I loved them or if they were just a good bargain. I have gotten that urge under control now and I currently own 10 pair of shoes which is my MAX number allowed. I have 2 pairs of boots, one lace up one pull on (Justin Gypsy are my fav pull on ) One pair Nike, One pair KSwiss, 2 pair dressy shoes, 2 pair sandals and 2 pair flip flops. I'm so glad that addiction is under control! Now if I can conquer the DEW!


What did you do with the rest of the 300 pairs??? Why would you get rid of them!!!
RE: Hollywood to Blame
5/2/2008 1:51:45 PM LarryKing12
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I really dont think we should be blaming these stars because the media only foccuses on the few that mess up. Just like teenagers have some bad friends that mess up and get into a lot of trouble so do these stars, and its just the media the glorifies their bad traits and make them look a million times worse than they are. We dont know any of the good things these stars do and their difficulties in quitting their addiction. They dont understand addiction and they use the term so lightly as if these starts can easily just say "Im going to stop" and not go through all the difficulties of quitting. And the media just makes it a million times worse on them which makes it even harder for them to quit.
RE: Smoking "Shisha"
5/2/2008 1:54:04 PM LarryKing12
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Melissa said: A lot of my friends have hookas at their houses (for personal use) and we'll all get together and smoke up.  Now I'm wondering whether or not they clean their hookas regularly.  But I think they would know if there was TB in it right?  Because they'd be sick too.  Is TB a bacteria, like how does it get in there?


TB is a disease, a person has it and can transfer it to another person. I'm pretty sure if a hooka was at a house the the person will refill the water. The hooka also starts tasting bad if the water is older.
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