RE: Any advice?
3/17/2008 10:26:37 PM
Intrill01
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twisted said: I'm currently on my way to becoming obese and I can't seem to lose weight. I've tried 5 different nutritionists in the past five years and none of them seem to work for me. Whenever I eat, I can't seem to turn my hunger off. I need more flavors, sweets, salty foods, anything I'm craving. I haven't always been this way tho, I used to be so thin, but after I moved out, all I can think about is junk food and my next meal. Which diets have helped you guys, I'm still in college and I work almost full time and I don't have much time to cook.
It sounds as if you may have an underlying issue, and you are turning to food to feel better. Maybe school is stressing you out, or you are depressed, but the only way to sure is to talk to a doctor about it and see if there is indeed an underlying problem.
I have found that many people think it will be unbearable to cut out the foods that they love, but cutting down on refined sugars and flour will make a huge difference. Also, make sure you get plenty of exercise, at least 30 minutes a day for 3-5 times a week. If this seems too tough, then try to work your way up gradually. Good luck and keep us updated.
RE: Re: Parents of kids addicted to food do not admit that the kids have a problem
3/17/2008 10:42:55 PM
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layla said: Yeah this is a bit of a tough one. There was a suggestin in the UK that having an obese child should be seen as a form of child abuse, and the children should be taken away. I think this is a bit draconian, but I do think a middle ground should be reached, perhaps with social services nad the family doctor working together with the family to better educate them about nutrition.
I agree it is the parent's fault if they keep their fridge stocked with junk food, and teach their children that it is ok to eat junk. But there are millions of kids that develop this eating addiction without the parents having a thing to do with it, and it is easy for them to go to a school vending machine, a friends house, etc. and grab some junk food. Just like parents don't have cocaine in their home when their child becomes an addict, the same goes for food.
If parents can get out of denial about it, then the best thing to do is get help for their child.
RE: How much time should young children spend online?
3/23/2008 9:19:16 AM
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fardreamer said: leighdu said: Many teachers and schools encourage internet use to their students, and even give a list of recommended websites where they can go and learn, such as noggin.com or yahookids.com . My question is, what would be an acceptable amount of time for young children to spend daily online?
How young, though? Obviously the age of the child determines the length of an Internet session; I'd say, though, for a 5-8 year old, about an hour, max, and always with all sorts of filters and supervision!
Yes, filters are a definite must. The problem is that sometimes they work and sometimes they don't. I absolutely cannot stand America Online and its bloated software, but they seemed to be the best when it came to filtering out content and only showing age appropriate material. But I am not gonna ever have AOL on any pc is this household.
RE: How much time should young children spend online?
3/23/2008 9:21:18 AM
Intrill01
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Aries said: fardreamer said
How young, though? Obviously the age of the child determines the length of an Internet session; I'd say, though, for a 5-8 year old, about an hour, max, and always with all sorts of filters and supervision!
Filters are a complete waste of time, nothing can replace supervision, that and filters cause all sorts of problems, and some are even spyware. That, and kids are tech-savvy, they can just use or set up a proxy to bypass it without breaking a sweat.
I think this depends on the childs age. There are some child genuises out there at age 4-6 that can bypass the filters, but the majority can't. The main thing is finding filters that actually work. You may want to try Cyber Nanny. I've heard lots of good things about it.
RE: Working online for hours does not mean...
3/27/2008 9:24:44 PM
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tonys76 said: Absolutely, it doesn't mean addiction. I work on a computer typically 14 hours a day myself, and I can easily walk away from it. Do I still have a device connected to the internet to receive messages beyond that (like a cell phone), yes.
You could say that's an addiction, or part of the job. If your livelihood is on the internet, well, then you can be attached to it as well, but I would not say addicted. Those who are crazy with e-mail are probably more feeding a social need than anything, IMO.
For me, a person has to meet certain criteria to be addicted to the internet, such as feeling they cannot live without it even for a day for personal reasons. When you work online, of course you probably can't survive without, but those that neglect everyone, don't eat, don't sleep, and only socialize online are more than likely addicted. There is a big difference in working online and being addicted online.