I have never really talked about this topic with people, but yes I have forgiven my husband for this. We had only been married a couple years and I found that he was having an affair. This was before cell phones were that popular so it was a little harder to figure out. I was so suspicious and when it’s happening to you, you just know something isn’t right. He didn’t want to be intimate with me anymore, he was never around and sometimes he wouldn’t even come home at night, “work” right? I am a stay at home wife, so I had the time to kind of investigate to see what was really going on. My girlfriend picked me up one night to see if my husband was really at the office. He was at the office, but he wasn’t alone and he definitely wasn’t working-well not on paperwork. There it was before my very own eyes the one thing that you never thought could happen in your relationship. After that moment, we kind of distanced ourselves from each other. He rented an apartment and at first we didn’t speak for a couple months, but when he finally decided to call he said he wanted to go to counseling. The counselor helped us tremendously and found the root of our problem. We have been happily married since and now have 4 children. It was a very hard time in my life, but I forgave him and I’m so happy with that decision.