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The tongue

The tongue
7/11/2007 1:59:00 AM hazephase
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A slip of the foot you may soon recover, but a slip of the tongue you may never get over.
---Benjamin Franklin
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7/11/2007 3:25:33 PM talisman
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No offense to Benjamin Franklin... I see where he's going with this. But I don't subscribe to that theory personally. I choose not to dwell on past mistakes... I fix them and move on.
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8/18/2007 10:16:16 AM simonsays
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I agree with you on this one. We all make mistakes and how you recover from that mistake shows how you are as a person. But not always in every case.
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3/27/2008 9:30:39 AM jdizzle
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talisman said: No offense to Benjamin Franklin... I see where he's going with this. But I don't subscribe to that theory personally. I choose not to dwell on past mistakes... I fix them and move on.


I dont think Benjamin Franklin was talking about mistakes. I think what he meant is if someone hits you u can recover from that and get over it. But sometimes things people say (a slip from the tongue) hurt you so bad that you never get over it.
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3/28/2008 2:56:43 PM texastreasure
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i agree with jdizzle
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4/18/2008 11:55:24 AM fire89
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That's so true, who ever said "Sticks and stones can break my bones but words will never hurt me," obviously never had their feelings hurt by something someone said or was gossiped about!
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4/29/2008 2:50:49 PM and1dude
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fire89 said: That's so true, who ever said "Sticks and stones can break my bones but words will never hurt me," obviously never had their feelings hurt by something someone said or was gossiped about!


I really think whoever said that just said it to comfort someone because I really dont believe it and I've never met anyone who does. A bruise heals but getting your feelings hurt dont go away.
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5/9/2008 2:02:40 PM punjaboy
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and1dude said:
fire89 said: That's so true, who ever said "Sticks and stones can break my bones but words will never hurt me," obviously never had their feelings hurt by something someone said or was gossiped about!


I really think whoever said that just said it to comfort someone because I really dont believe it and I've never met anyone who does. A bruise heals but getting your feelings hurt dont go away.


It probably was said to comfort someone, but it is also a wise saying. I think that it is also supposed to mean to not take what people say personally, let them say whatever they want because physically they can never hurt you and emotionally they only will if you let them.
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