I am 25 years old, engaged with a 3 month old and I can't stop thinking about sex with my fiance. She is having trouble with things in the bed room since she had the baby (never in the mood and sex is painful) I don't want to force her but since I can't stop thinking about it I started having cybersex with a friend of ours, but was fantasizing about my fiance the whole time. My fiance found out and now our relationship is in trouble. This is not the first time I have done this, or that she has caught me. I did physically cheat on her once a few years ago and it was hard for us to recover from that. We are supposed to be married at the end of this month but now she is scared to commit. We talked and I finally realised that I have a problem... I am just not sure of what the next step should be. I need any help and advice that could be offered... Thanks in advance!

please break off the relationship with your fiancee and seek professional counseling for your addiction before you get into any meaningful relationship...would you want your daughter to date a guy like you?  of course not, so don't be that guy and read Undefiled by Dr. Harry Schamburg, it may help you more than you know!