I have been sober for about a year, and am realizing how prevalent alcohol is our daily lives. I am comfortable now in a social situation without alcohol (for which I am so grateful) but the people around me are a bit put off.  I'm not talking about old "party" friends - they have been weeded out and all that remains are those who like me clean and sober.  It's new people - people who have never seen me drink - who seem so on edge by my non-consumption of alcohol.  It's almost as if they are threatened, or somehow suspicious.  I can vaguely remember feeling that way away around sober individuals when I was heavily drinking, but it's so different to be on the other side.  Has anyone else experienced this?  Any insights?

Oh - I'm new here, and eager to exchange thoughts and ideas and stories with anyone who is or is attempting to live his/her life alcohol-free.

SK

Hi Cool Girl - This is my first post and your message was the first I read. I understand about others - I am trying so very hard to stay sober but most of my family are not and they are the ones that give me the most difficult time - and a few friends also. I go for so long without a drink and then being around it all the time I slip up so I'm giving it one more try. To make a long story short - I was sober for 13 years and it is so sad to be in this position again. VERY SAD - but I know there is hope and I also know to take heed lest I fall. This is a world of pleasure seeking and fallen people and it is difficult to get away from. I'm so glad that you have made it a whole year - Congratulations on that accomplishment and try not to let others bother you - they are the ones waking up with the hangover and, boy oh boy, misery sure does love company. Thank you for your courage to share your story. God bless and give you strength and peace.