a guy i knew started drugs, drinking and sex at age 10. he was sent away to rehab and his paretns moved as well. he returned home 10 yrs later and convinced me to date him, he would stop talking to me for up to 3 weeks at a time sometimes but i always held on. he puts cocaine and partying before almost anything else. after i took him on a carribean vacation he literally broke up with me saying leave me alone i want to drink with my friends.. for weeks later he called me saying that his calls were accidental b*tch. finally he called and we met up and worked things out it was almost 2 months and we were talking about how great things were and talking about going on another trip ect. we had plans on the wknd and when i called him he said he "had a gf and wanted me to know so i didnt wait around or book us a trip" i was so hurt and so shocked, for all the times he has done this he says he was trying to make me hate him, he doesnt deserve to talk to me, he wishes i would say **** u i never want to see you again ect.. its hard to believe he could have a gf when he works nights and we talk quite a bit, if he had the gf i know i would have been out of the picture asap. all this happened after he went out of town with his buddies for 3 days (all of which do mass amounts of cocaine) and who knows what else... I am just so hurt because he told me to stay the f away from him his family ect, its so out of the blue each time he does this....
I have been nothing but a loving girlfriend it hurts so much to see him do this to himself. When i mention him getting help he says everyone knows hes going to die from drugs or alch, he wont be around long i should be with someone else, he doesnt want to stop its just "who he is" :( i hate when he shuts me out i want to be their as a friend even if he does have a gf.. theirs so much more to the story but i didnt want to write a novel.