One of my best friends got out of a relationship about a year ago. She didn't want to break up but he did and she was totally heartbroken. He was the first person and only person she ever did it with. After they broke up he moved away and she ended up just turning to sex to forget about her problems. She would sleep with random guys or just guys who are friends. Even guys who she knows have girlfriends. I would fight with her constantly about it and tell her that its wrong and she shouldn't be doing that but it never did any good, she never stopped. Anyway I was hanging out with her on new years eve and we were just running some errands. She told me she made her new years resolution and it was that she will not sleep with another guy untill she is married. Even if she was dating him for years, she still wouldn't. I was so proud of her that I stopped the car just to hug her. I'm really glad she made that decision and I'm praying to God that she sticks with it.

I'm happy for you and your friend. That is a big resolution and I'm sure you will be there to help her along the way. It's so crazy what guys can do to you and how they affect you. I never slept around, but in high school after my bf dumped me I would hang out with any guy that would pay attention to me, until one of my friends asked what was going on with all these guys. She said all these people at school told her I was sleeping around and I really wasn't. I had really supportive friends though and they helped me through it.

I think that's pretty common of girls nowadays... to sleep around after a bad break up.  But it's just a way of not dealing with the negative emotions that come along with losing someone.  It's really just best to sit at home until you stop crying, then hang out with your friends.  There's no sense in going around trying to get appreciation from other guys just because one guy didn't like you.  I've seen so many girls try this way of coping and it just gives you a bad reputation... And you're not learning anything from what went wrong in the break up. 

I think by doing that and ruining your reputation your never going to find love that way. And even if you do that guy may not respect you because of all the guys that you did sleep with. Girls are looking for love in all the wrong places nowadays and its not right. I think your friends new years resolution is a very good one and you should definitely help her stick with it. That's not a life to live and although it may cure the pain for a few minutes it'll still come back just as fast only later you'll have regret on top of it.