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12/1/2008 10:53:48 AM GurlGurl
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  I watched the new documentary about Britney Spears last night and it really made me realize a lot about life.  She was explaining everything that's happened in her career and talked a lot about this past year when she completely lost it.  I think the main reason things got out of control were because she was surrounding herself with bad people.  Also her divorce was so heart breaking for her.  She built this huge dream house and then he wanted to make his album and was never home.  And I think after the divorce she was completely devastated and never wanted to be with her kids because to her, that was home.  And she just couldn't handle being at home in that point of her life.  I think now, she's grown up a lot and realized many things.  But one of the main themes of the documentary was that you have to really surround yourself with positive people in order to be happy and successful, and sometimes you have to make the choice to be a positive person to create your own normalcy in life. 
Our thoughts create our reality.
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12/4/2008 9:30:05 AM totaleclipse
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I really wanted to see this documentary but I missed it. I want to look it up and see if there is a replay of it online! Britney is one of my favorite artists and has been for so long. I was really upset that all that stuff happened to her, but im so glad and proud that she seems to be getting better. She has her whole tour set up now and her new CD too! I'm excited to go buy it! I think Kevin was just terrible for her and he was what brought her down. But she loves her kids so at least she benefited something out of being with him. I'm really looking forward to watching her be as great as she used to be!
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12/8/2008 12:36:54 PM BurBerry
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Yeaa it was pretty informative.  I'm hearing mixed reviews about it.  There's a lot of people who are saying that it was just made for people to feel bad for her, and if that's the case, then it worked on me LOL.  But the fact is that she was depressed at one point in her life, and handled these two significant break ups differently and let it affect her life.  But it seems like she's bounced back pretty well and I think she's a stronger person because of everything. 
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12/9/2008 10:36:49 AM jamma
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I dont think they put that on there for people to feel bad for her. Those are just haters that are saying that. I think they did it because people are wondering what really happened. What went on with Britney, we hear a different story every day in those magazines and no one knows whats really true. Her speaking out gives us a much better perspective. The same thing happened with Mariah Carey a few years ago remember? When she had her nervous breakdown and went crazy. She later talked about it on Oprah. People got a better idea of what was going on.
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12/23/2008 9:08:58 AM Wizz
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I really think that her marriage to K-Fed messed up her whole world.  She really went into it whole heartedly and ended up getting burned.  The person that you choose to be in a relationship with can potentially ruin your whole life and everything in it.  I was in a bad relationship for a few years and I wish I wouldn't gotten out of it sooner.  But then again it taught me a lot about what I'm comfortable with and willing to put up with.  And there's no sense in trying to change someone.  People are the way they are and if there's going to be any change, it's going to be from inside of them.  Anyway, I hope Britney learns from her mistakes and can find a new, healthy love.
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12/30/2008 10:11:29 AM colourful
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I think it's really crazy how some relationships completely mess up your life. When you first get into it the thought of how it will mess up your life later on never crosses your mind and they seem so perfect, I wish there could be warning signs from the beginning. Me and my ex broke up a few months ago and hes in a new relationship. What really bothers me though is that he really screwed me over, he cheated on me so much and i stuck with him, and he turned out to be so mean but I still stayed, and in the end he left me and I was left devastated. You'd think that karma would come back around and that he would be miserable but hes not he just got in a new relationship and he's happy, while I can't seem to get over it or him I feel like my life will never be the same. I'm sure if I had the media on my back too I'd go crazy just like Britney did.
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1/2/2009 9:35:40 AM Jasmine
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colourful said: I think it's really crazy how some relationships completely mess up your life. When you first get into it the thought of how it will mess up your life later on never crosses your mind and they seem so perfect, I wish there could be warning signs from the beginning. Me and my ex broke up a few months ago and hes in a new relationship. What really bothers me though is that he really screwed me over, he cheated on me so much and i stuck with him, and he turned out to be so mean but I still stayed, and in the end he left me and I was left devastated. You'd think that karma would come back around and that he would be miserable but hes not he just got in a new relationship and he's happy, while I can't seem to get over it or him I feel like my life will never be the same. I'm sure if I had the media on my back too I'd go crazy just like Britney did.

You haven't shaved off your hair so your not considered crazy yet! It takes time to get over, and believe me karma will come back around. You don't really know what is going on his life. He may tell you he is happy and smiles but it could be the other way around. Or maybe he is going to fall in love with her and then she ends up screwing him over the way he did to you. God has his ways of doing things, and a part of that is showing others the pain they put other through. Otherwise a person will never learn and never become a good person. All that will come back to him. Also you said you stuck with him through all that, maybe the first time he messed up that was your sign that he is not meant for you and someone else is. He had to keep hurting you and had to basically move on for faith to turn out the way its supposed to. Obviously it is not meant to be and everything that happened in the past are signs that its not. You will find the person that is meant for you and you will look back at this relationship and think how dumb you were to even cry a single tear for him. And while your happy he most definitely wont be.
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