In custody battles over children of divorcing parents, courts do agree that it's imperative to consider the "best interest of the child." The legislature failed to specify the exact weight that alcohol abuse plays in the decision, so the onus is on the judge to make a determination. One in four children under age 18 are exposed to alcohol abuse or dependace in the family.

As a background, apprximately 14,000,000 Americans meet the diagnostic criteria for alcohol abuse. The circumstances of the courts are usually broad, but the courts usually look at three key factors: the child's health, safety, and welfare. For example, in California, the perpetration of child abuse or domestic violence in a household where a child resides is detrimental to the child. So, you better believe that under this factor, alcohol abuse becomes a heavy consideration and proof of your ex-spouse's preference for liquor, is a strong case for sole custody.

I have known a few moms that have taken care of their children quite well and was there for them more than the father, but because of the fact that she had a drinking problem, the fathers were granted custody. If that is not an incentive to get help then I don't know what is.