This question is actually about my step-son. He has most recently been fired from his job because of stealing money because he is addicted to shopping/spending. This is not a new problem but it definitely has escalated for him as you can see with my opening statement. He is 32yrs old and now he has to sell the house that he bought last year---his father has cashed out one of his retirement accounts to help my step-son pay back the stolen money. Also, there may be some criminal action towards this recent theft. My question is how can I guide him to seek some help for this very deep psychological problem that he has? He lives in the northern part of Idaho and we do too and we are close to Spokane Washington and Couerd'Alene Idaho. Are there any groups available in our area that helps with this problem? Thank You. - Susan
Dear Susan,
I'm so sorry to hear about the very serious problem with your step-son. The fact that you and your husband are so involved and concerned and are reaching out for help is wonderful. I want to recommend to you Terrence Shulman, a lawyer and a social worker, who specializes in working with people who steal. His contact information is below. His book, "Something for Nothing" might be very helpful to you and your husband. He has a very informative website and he has a monthly newsletter, which may both be of help.
Terrence Shulman
The Shulman Center for Compulsive Theft and Spending
www.theshulmancenter.com
terrenceshulman@theshulmancenter.com
(248) 358-8508
My hope for a positive resolution to this problem. I wish you continued strength to give your step-son the support that he needs, and I hope that you and your husband get the support that you both deserve.
Warm regards,
April Benson
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