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Middle Aged Woman Asking for Sex Addiction Help

Dr. Doug Weiss - 11/11/2007

I am a very attractive 43 year-old woman. However, I haven't had sex in about 7 years. Until recently, I was in an abusive relationship. During this period I have always used vibrators to fulfill my desires. I usually use the vibrator or anything; broomsticks, cucumbers. Anything to insert into my vagina. I recently started having an affair with a 29 year-old. I am always feeling like something should go into my vagina. What should I do?

You sound incredibly lonely. It may be this behavior helps you feel full or complete. You can be attractive and still be someone who avoids real intimacy. Look over your relationship history and see if you consistently choose men who in the long run can’t be intimate. If this is true, I’d get into counseling for sexual/intimacy anorexia. So you can be beautiful and intimate.

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