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Christians Looking for an Opinion on Sex

Dr. Doug Weiss - 11/3/2007

Do you think having oral sex is wrong? My husband and i really enjoy pleasuring each other this way. And I guess I'm like most of the women out there, I can't have an orgasm with just sexual intercourse. I have seen other speakers on Christian TV say that it's wrong to perform oral sex on your spouse. Well, what are you supposed to do when you both enjoy it? I'm just confused. My husband and I are both Christians and try to live right. Any info on this matter would be greatly appreciated. Thank you and god bless you

I get this question a lot. In the book Intimacy: A 100 Day Guide to Lasting Relationships and The Ten-Minute Marriage Principle I cover a grid to make such decisions as a couple. If you both are being present (not fantasizing about others) during a sex act and both are comfortable then this can stay within your sexual relationship. If one of you is uncomfortable then this probably shouldn't be a part of your sexual agreement.

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