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Boyfriend Addicted to Sex With His Girlfriend

Dr. Doug Weiss - 11/5/2007

I am addicted to having sex with my girlfriend. The only problem is that she is a strongly religious girl so she doesn't want to do it. SO I take it upon myself to do it for her. I have raped my girl friend multiple times and although she always ends up crying and in pain, she forgives me. The worse part is that I really am falling in love with her and I can't stand hurting her like this. How do I get out of this sick habit?

This is criminal behavior. Her co-dependency must be huge. Recommend she see a counselor to set boundaries with you. This is illegal behavior and you would be arrested if she reported this. To say you love someone and repeatedly rape her is denial to its highest degree. You might want to see if you fit antisocial personality disorder otherwise known as a sociopath. The characteristics of antisocial personality disorder in the DSM-IV includes:

  • • Failure to conform to social norms with respect to lawful behaviors as indicated by repeatedly performing acts that are grounds for arrest.
  • Deceitfulness, as indicated by repeated lying, use of aliases, or conning others for personal profit or pleasure.
  • Impulsivity or failure to plan ahead.
  • Irritability and aggressiveness, as indicated by repeated physical fights or assaults.
  • Reckless disregard for safety of self or others.
  • Consistent irresponsibility, as indicated by repeated failure to sustain consistent work behavior or honor financial obligations.
  • Lack of remorse, as indicated by being indifferent to or rationalizing having hurt, mistreated, or stolen from another.

If you fit this category, get professional help immediately. Leave this woman alone. If you love her at all, stay away from her.

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